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Taking a Virtual Break

There was an article in the New York Times last week by Mark Bittman - whom some of you might know as the author of How to Cook Everything - about taking a "virtual break." In this article, he details his addiction to everything technoloigcal: cell phones, the Internet, blogging, RSS feeds, all those do-dads that have been invented in the last 20 years to help us be "more connected." It was an interesting article (you can find it here) and got me to thinking about my own attachment to electronica.

For the last 14 months or so, I've carried a Blackberry Pearl, which I loved. I had work email fed to it and it was set up to access my personal email accounts. This was really a handy thing to have - for the occasions when I needed to run an errand or go to an appointment in the middle of the workday - I could respond to email on the fly if the answers were quick and easy. The Pearl was great, mostly for reading email, but it was plain-text and usually more trouble than it was worth to do much more than that.

About a week ago, while running errands, I tried to leave my mom a voicemail and the voicemail system kept cutting me off mid-sentence. I eventually discovered that there was something wrong with the microphone in my Pearl. I don't spend a ton of time talking on the phone, really, but having the ability to be heard while speaking seems like kind of an important feature. So I set off for the closest T-Mobile store and picked myself up a T-Mobile Dash. I'd heard from several folks that they really liked theirs and knowing my company would reimburse a portion of a Windows Mobile-based phone I decided to go for it.

This phone, people - it does everything my Blackberry did and then some! And that's all well and good (it has its annoying little quirks, too) except over the last week I've found myself checking my email constantly: read a few pages in a book, look at the phone; go to the bathroom, come back and look at the phone; cook dinner, pick up the phone three times during the process to check if there's any new mail. I'm not sure what it is about this little phone over the Blackberry (perhaps it's the wider screen or the ability to view HTML mails on there) but I'm feeling a bit tethered.

Part of the problem with my particular line of work (public relations) is that with the Internet and all these devices, everyone knows everything instantly. So PR folks have to be ready to jump on a developing story or answer a reporter's or client's question quickly. Being uber-connected is handy when reporters are covering news round-the-clock and bloggers are breaking news stories at all hours of the night. I'm no longer working directly with clients or reporters doing actual PR, but sometimes that aspect of the company's main line of business seeps over into my world. (Which is fine, on occasion. I understand the way the business works and I know this happens occasionally. No problem. I just don't want it to happen constantly.)

I'm all for being connected, and I find it handy to be so on occasion. Really. But that said, there's such a thing as being too connected and, after this week particularly, all of this connectedness starts to wear me down. So, upon reading Mr. Bittman's article, I started thinking about whether and how to take regular virtual breaks. And, most importantly, when I could do it. We talk about serenity and peace quite often in my recovery groups and it finally dawned on me that being overly connected - to email, to my job, to an instant wealth of entertainment - was making it too easy for me to just zone out, watch TV or read blogs and not think.

So what I decided is this: Saturdays have now been dubbed "Technology Free Days" in my world. And for me this means no cell phone, no computers, no televisions, no radios. The landline will be there, should I need it for an emergency, but otherwise it too is off-limits. If I need to know, do or find out something, I'm going to have to find some other way to get the information, or wait until Sunday.

In short, Saturdays are going to be peaceful and quiet. The experiment starts tomorrow; let's hope I survive!

Comments

WOW, I'm so glad I never got "hooked" into the blackberry craze that has taken over most of my mates around the world!

I really look forward to my holidays where I keep my mobile with me for emergencies, but off since it's SOOOO expensive to use outside of the UK.

Goodonya for giving technology free saturday's a try . . . can't wait to hear how you survived ;) I'm sure you'll be fine, course I'll be the one dying with my scrabulous partner MIA!!
xx

Wow. I wish you luck! It'd be easy for me to say, "I can do that, too!" but I know it wouldn't last. I can kill the cell phone and either the computer or tv, but not both for a whole day! The closest I get to complete cut off is when we go camping or go to my weekend place where there is no computer and the tv only picks up 2 stations.

Good luck with you endeavor!

I always feel sort of "funny" just urinating while on the phone with long-time friends...couldn't imagine multi-tasking beyond that!

Linda D. in Seattle

If my cell wasn't my only phone I'd do that too. But considering I'm a rather solitary sort, a few days a week are practically cell free anyhow. I wonder though if when I get my laptop next month if I should consider doing a tech free day a week. Sounds good eh?
~F


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