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Post-Valentine's Day Report

So I am back! Back from my (unintentional) blogging hiatus, back from my mini-break to the Oregon coast with Mr. Norris, back to "real" life. And real life, apparently, includes more fatigue. And more depression. And some regular ole crankiness that stemmed from said depression and fatigue, and also from trying to vacation peacefully with one's significant other.

People, Mr. Norris is a saint. I mean, he doesn't have a halo or anything (at least, not one that I've seen), and I'm pretty sure he's not dead and that he's not been blessed as such by the Pope in Rome, but the fact that he puts up with a very cranky and depressed me, and seems to like me anyway... well, that is pretty remarkable. Frankly, I think I'm getting the better end of the deal in this relationship, but he seems happy so I'll take it.

So, the weekend:
Thursday night, Mr. Norris arrived around 7 and we hung out and talked for a little while and then opened gifts and ate some salad while we waited for dinner to finish cooking. Our valentine's day, and indeed the whole weekend, was very low key: I made herb roasted Cornish Game Hens (because those little birds are so darned CUTE!), roasted baby red potatoes and steamed green beans for dinner and our gifts were similarly small and low key. He gave me a couple of cute and sweet cards, Season II ofBoston Legal, and a yummy vegan raspberry treat. I got him a Moleskine Sketchbook, a skin kit for men by Dermalogica (my favorite skin care products ever) and some yummy little treats like PEZ and Ghiradelli chocolate squares filled with caramel, along with a card. All in all, a very quiet and enjoyable if not uber-romantic evening. (Which, let's face it, is a bit over-rated to begin with...)

Friday, we got up, got packed and then headed over to my dad's to drop off Rennie. She was not at all pleased to discover that she wasn't getting to go to the beach and my Dad had to distract her while we scooted out the door. After a trip through Starbucks, we were on the road by about 1:30 and arrived at our hotel around 3:00 pm. Our room had a beautiful view of the ocean and a small kitchenette (which = microwave + fridge + coffee maker), but Mr. Norris had brought along his French coffee press and a handy little hot plate so we were all set for cooking and our morning coffee. We ended up eating in, actually, for most of our meals and I suspect it saved us a pretty penny. Fortunate, too, because I ended up being so tired for much of the weekend that going out to eat seemed like a potentially miserable experience to me.

So we spent a lot of time in, resting and talking and looking at the beautiful ocean. At one point, he took out a marshmallow, stuck it on the end of a fork, and roasted it for me using the flame of several matches. I think it was the best roasted marshmallow I've ever eaten. The weather was perfect all weekend and the sky so clear that we could see the stars in all their fun constellations on Saturday night.

Sunday we got up and checked out, and then headed North on Hwy 101 up the Oregon coast to Cannon Beach. My very favorite candy store, Bruce's Candy Kitchen, is in Cannon Beach, and we'd hoped to stop by there but the place was unfortunately still under renovations. So we just drove on through since the town was crawling with a billion people and there was literally no place to park. (The previous day we'd driven an hour south from our hotel and shopped a bit at the Lincoln City outlet malls - we each found a few items but didn't spend long there.)

All in all, it was an enjoyable trip. There were, of course, things that we disagreed about and there were the occasional spats, but I think - in general - we are getting along well. The thing that was hardest for me over the course of the weekend was that I was tired. Really, really tired. And for me, tired = cranky. And my being tired and cranky frustrates me, and so I took it out on Mr. Norris - who, as I said, is saint-like - for lack of anyone else to take it out on. He did not deserve it and of course it was not fair and yet he just took it in stride and didn't take anything personally. He is a bigger person than me, that's for sure.

I guess now I can only apologize and work on behaving better in the future. Love's a funny thing: I guess you know you've found someone really special when you want to become more like them and less like your own cranky self.

Comments

Glad you had fun with Mr Norris and i think it's awesome that he can put up with your "cranky" periods, he can obviously see you're worth it!!

Was thinkin of you today when someone asked if I'd ever seen the movie The Queen - had a flash back to that lovely movie and also our not so hot movie date of Happy Feet, gave me a giggle to be honest!!

Hope this week has been good to ya, love from L'town, xx


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